If you feel stressed about moving, imagine what it’s like for your kids. You have a say in the decisions that dictate the how, when and where of your move. Your kids probably don’t.  Children are creatures of habit. Any disturbance in the routine will prompt a reaction, whether it's a teenager rebelling or a four-year old pitching a fit. It's normal for them to feel apprehensive and anxious—make sure they know that. 

Be honest 
Talk to children about what to expect, answer questions, share your feelings and encourage them to share theirs. Make sure they know they can come to you at any time. The prospect of being uprooted from school, sports teams, friends and a familiar house can be traumatic, and the longer your children have been building relationships, the more upset they will likely be. Let them know that you can and will help them through the transition. 

Be a role model
Kids pick up on their parents' emotion and state of mind. If you're frantic and nervous about the move, they will be too. If you keep it together and express confidence, your kids will likely follow your lead. Concentrate on all the opportunities and emphasize all new experiences that lie ahead. This is an exciting time. 

Let them help 
If it's practical, let the kids participate during the home search. Encourage them to ask questions—sometimes kids ask the most insightful questions. Look at the house through their eyes and try to think of their concerns. 

Pick it up, pack it in
Packing is never fun, nor is it tremendously exciting. Younger kids in particular may need a little help understanding the concept. Let them know you’re not throwing away toys; you’re just making sure that they’re packed safely away and that they’ll be available when you get to the new place. 

What's it like?
If you're moving to a new city or state, show them where you're going to live on a map. Also, use the Internet to find kid-friendly attractions and other information about your new town. Allow them to get excited, as this may help counteract some of their nerves. 

We can do it 
Moving can be a stressful experience for kids, but as a parent, you can alleviate some of the anxiety by being honest, answering questions and involving them in the process. Ask your San Antonio REALTOR^® for advice or resources that can help ease the transition into your new community. As an expert in the San Antonio Real Estate industry, your REALTOR® likely helped another family through a similar situation.

For more tips and information about resources to ease your moving transition into the San Antonio area, I invite you to visit the property search section of SABOR.com, the Voice of Real Estate in San Antonio